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Caught in the middle

Dear Sam: My friends are in a terrible fight. I really want them to STOP but I don’t want to get caught in the middle. Oh Sam please help!

Ash

Dear Ash: Since you are friends to both of them, you may find yourself caught in the middle. Use this position to defend your friends (both of them). Try to get them to see the other’s perspective. For example, if Jenny complains about Nicole, you could say “I don’t think Nicole meant it that way.” And if Nicole brings up her problems with Jenny, you might say “It’s not like Jenny to act like that.” Do not take sides. Stay neutral and positive about everyone involved. That way, when it’s all over, you’ll still have both friendships and your integrity.

Sam
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